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英文："You can love someone and still choose to say goodbye to them." 中文：你可以深爱着一个人，却依然选择与他告别。 英文："First find out what you are capable of, then decide who you are." 中文：先弄清楚自己能做到什么，再决定自己是谁。 英文："The past was a ghost, insubstantial, unaffecting. Only the future had weight." 中文：过去如幽灵般虚无缥缈，无法影响当下；唯有未来，才拥有分量。 英文："My life was narrated for me by others. Their voices were forceful, emphatic, absolute. It had never occurred to me that my voice might be as strong as theirs." 中文：我的人生故事，一直由别人讲述。他们的声音坚定、有力、不容置疑。我从未想过，自己的声音也能拥有同等的力量。 英文："Everything I had worked for, all my years of study, had been to purchase for myself this one privilege: to see and experience more truths than those given to me by my father." 中文：我过去所有的努力，多年的学习，都是为了给自己争取这一项权利：去看见、去经历更多真相，而非仅仅接受父亲灌输给我的那些。